If you haven't read this book, The Secret Pleasures of Menopause, put it on your list. It is fabulous. It sat on my desk for six months before I got around to reading it. Why did I wait? Dr. Northrup is an engaging writer and has a unique understanding and knowledge of the aging female body - the joys and pleasures we can continue to experience. She tells us how to stay vibrant, sexy and energetic. Hurray for pleasure, positive thinking and orgasms! Thank you Dr. Northrup!!